Chapter 9

The place…

How to trigger attraction in women

Don’t take her to the local Macdonald, though; although I have nothing against the Macdonalds, but for the first date it is not advisable.

These ladies appreciate the respect and importance you give them to the place where you are going to take them.

It doesn’t have to be expensive or luxurious. It can be a nice, typical, original or romantic place!

Just another little anecdote to confirm my point:

Some time ago, I met at a party a friend of mine whom I nicknamed “The Pink Panther” due to her habit of dressing in pink.

Since she looked sad, I ask her why.

¨Ahh! She told me, imagine that last night I had a date with a boy I met on the internet and who for once invited me to a restaurant (rare).

So, she said, I dress well and let myself be driven …

But I was surprised to say the least, because I found myself in a fast food restaurant. Well…

The waiter brings the menu, I choose several dishes that seems nice and what was my surprise when he snatched the menu from my hands, called the waiter back, and ordered two glasses of water and half a salad to share !

I was so surprised that I did not immediately react, but when he put his hand on my knee and asked me to quickly finish to eat to get to his place and get down to business, I came to my senses and took my purse and catapulted myself out of this dingy restaurant without a look for that bastard! “

She then looked me straight in the eye and said with a tear “tell me sincerely Pat, I worth better than half a salad, No.”

The choice of venue for a date can significantly impact the impression you make. It’s essential to select a place that shows respect and consideration for your date’s preferences. Here are some additional guidelines:

  1. Avoid fast-food restaurants: Opt for a place with a more pleasant ambiance and a menu that offers a variety of options. Fast-food establishments may not create the desired atmosphere for a first date.
  2. Consider her preferences: Take into account her tastes and interests when selecting a venue. If you know she enjoys a particular cuisine or atmosphere, try to find a restaurant that aligns with her preferences.
  3. Look for uniqueness and charm: Instead of going to a generic chain restaurant, consider a local eatery or a hidden gem that offers a unique and memorable experience. It could be a cozy café, a charming bistro, or a restaurant with a romantic ambiance.
  4. Balance affordability and quality: You don’t need to choose an expensive restaurant, but it’s important to strike a balance between affordability and the quality of the establishment. Opt for a place that offers good food and a pleasant environment without breaking the bank.

Remember, the goal is to make your date feel valued and appreciated by choosing a venue that shows thoughtfulness and consideration. Taking her preferences into account and selecting a place with a pleasant atmosphere will help create a positive and enjoyable experience for both of you.

The best place to invite a woman will depend on her interests, preferences, and the stage of your relationship. Here are some ideas for potential date locations:

  1. Coffee shop or café: Inviting a woman for a casual coffee date is a popular choice. It provides a relaxed atmosphere where you can have a conversation and get to know each other better.
  2. Restaurant: A nice restaurant can be a great option for a more formal and intimate date. Choose a place that offers a variety of cuisine options and has a pleasant ambiance.
  3. Park or outdoor setting: If the weather is suitable, inviting her for a walk in the park or a picnic can be a refreshing and enjoyable experience. It allows for a more relaxed and casual interaction in a natural environment.
  4. Cultural events or exhibitions: Consider inviting her to a museum, art gallery, theater performance, or any cultural event that aligns with her interests. It can be a great way to engage in shared experiences and spark interesting conversations.
  5. Adventure or outdoor activities: If both of you are adventurous and enjoy outdoor activities, you can plan a date that involves hiking, biking, kayaking, or any other outdoor adventure. It can be a fun and memorable experience that allows you to bond over shared interests.
  6. Cooking or wine tasting class: If you both have a love for food and culinary experiences, inviting her to a cooking class or a wine tasting event can be a unique and interactive date idea. It allows for collaboration and learning while enjoying each other’s company.
  7. Local events or festivals: Keep an eye out for local events, festivals, or concerts happening in your area. Inviting her to such events can provide a lively and vibrant atmosphere where you can have a great time together.

Remember to consider her interests and preferences when selecting a place to invite her. It’s essential to choose an environment where she feels comfortable and can engage in meaningful conversation. Open communication and a thoughtful approach to planning the date will go a long way in making it a successful and enjoyable experience for both of you.