The Date!
Yeeeeeeee!, she call you…
Don’t get too excited on the phone and don’t jump on her like misery on the poor world …
Take a casual look, Vanessa … Vanessa … Ah yes, I remember (as if there were a dozen waiting for your only pleasure :-))
I’m glad that you call me! I think that it would be great if you accept to share a drink with me in order to better know each other, I know a little cafe… ( NEVER invite her at your home the first time and don’t ask to go to her place: always a public place)
After … It’s your turn: all hopes are allowed. You invited her for a drink, or to a restaurant not too far from her house, preferably in a nice place (it is understood that you are the one paying, because you are a gentleman).
If she insists on eating at the most expensive place in town and/ or bringing a girlfriend, run away .
If your car is a ruin, borrow a friend’s car or hire one.
If you don’t have anything decent to wear it’s time to do some shopping, even something cheap (don’t forget to remove the tags)
The trick is to show good taste, originality and try to match her style.
- Keep the conversation casual: Express your enthusiasm for her call, but maintain a relaxed and laid-back tone. Avoid coming across as too eager or desperate.
- Invite her for a drink: Suggest meeting up for a drink at a local café or a casual restaurant. Choose a place that is convenient for both of you and offers a relaxed atmosphere where you can have a conversation and get to know each other better.
- Public places for the first date: It’s generally a good idea to have the first date in a public place for safety and comfort. Avoid inviting her to your home or suggesting going to her place at this stage.
- Be a gentleman: Offer to pay for the date as a gesture of courtesy. Choose a place that aligns with your budget and ensures both of you feel comfortable.
- Dress appropriately: Take the opportunity to dress well for the occasion. Wear something that reflects your personal style while considering the venue and matching her level of formality.
Remember, the goal is to make a positive impression by showing your good taste, being attentive to her preferences, and creating an enjoyable experience for both of you.
Conclusion
The best way to have a date with a woman is to approach the situation with respect, consideration, and open communication. Here are some steps to follow:
- Establish a connection: Start by getting to know the woman and building a rapport. Engage in conversations, find common interests, and create a sense of comfort and trust between the two of you.
- Express your interest: Once you feel a connection and believe there is mutual interest, express your desire to spend more time together. Be genuine and straightforward, letting her know that you would like to take her out on a date.
- Plan the date: Take the initiative to plan a date that aligns with her interests and preferences. Consider activities or locations that allow for conversation and getting to know each other better. It could be a dinner at a nice restaurant, a coffee date, a walk in the park, or any other activity you both enjoy.
- Be considerate and respectful: During the date, prioritize her comfort and enjoyment. Show genuine interest in what she has to say, actively listen, and engage in meaningful conversation. Be polite, respectful, and attentive throughout the experience.
- Take the lead: While it’s important to consider her preferences, take the lead in organizing the logistics of the date. Plan the time, place, and any necessary arrangements. This shows confidence and initiative, which can be attractive qualities.
- Be yourself: It’s crucial to be authentic and true to yourself. Avoid putting up a facade or pretending to be someone you’re not. Let her see the real you, as this will establish a genuine connection and increase the chances of a meaningful relationship.
- Follow up: After the date, express your appreciation for her company and the time you spent together. If you both had a good time and there is potential for further dates, express your interest in seeing her again.
Remember, every woman is unique, and there is no one-size-fits-all approach to dating. It’s important to communicate openly, respect her boundaries, and be mindful of her comfort level throughout the process. Building a strong foundation of trust and connection is key to a successful and enjoyable dating experience.