Conclusion!
What to say? I gave you my recipes, my secrets which will be adapted to your gender, your personality, your culture and your country. But women are very similar, regardless of their origin or social level, even if the (superficial) varnish is different. They are attracted to men whom they consider viable according to their conception (big muscles, a big brain, a big wallet, etc.)
If they are looking for a life partner, they must feel protected, for their future family, or their current family. On this subject the male must have everything she needs!
Even if it’s just for sex, they shouldn’t be ashamed of their partner, that she can present him without blushing to their girlfriends, colleagues, parents, family, and who knows, if it really turns out interesting, they will do whatever it takes to keep it.
There are also some who want to be like “everyone else”.
Seeing their girlfriends or their sisters settle down and the biological clock, which inexorably reminds them that their procreation time is limited, they desperately hunt for a possible husband, they don’t want to remain an old woman and no longer be able to give birth.
These are ready to be satisfied with an imperfect companion, as long as he agrees to pass the ring on their finger and have children ….
It’s up to you to be diligent, inventive, courteous, generous of heart and money, etc. etc. Yes, I know it is difficult but the reward will be up to the task.
Also note that everything is not black or white, but that there are all the nuances and that the examples that I have given are indicative. It is up to you from the framework that I give you to forge your own experience…
it’s also up to me to say, even if it means shocking our sensitivity and our romanticism, that very often things remain extremely basic …
Namely that despite 50,000 years of evolution we remain so-called “superior” animals and that, despite the superficial varnish of our civilization, we are only males looking for females to copulate, and females to have young and perpetrate the species…
Desmons Maurice, famous zoologist in “The naked monkey”, shows us the similarity of the relations between the baboon females with the head of the clan, and the secretary with her boss! (animal and modern version of the sofa promotion!)
The programming written in our primate brains tells us to fertilize as many females as possible before we died. This was valid in the cave age when males, due to war and hunting, did not live very long.
But this programming has not changed, because, in biological terms, a few tens of thousands of years is nothing! And the females are always looking for the strong male, head of the clan who will protect them and allow them to raise the young in the most comfortable cave possible …
Sorry for the comparison!
These ladies are always attracted by the “dominant male” as proof of what happened to me one day… I was at a computer convention with a friend and I saw two beautiful girls that I invited to go to lunch with us. She starts by choosing whatever was the most expensive on the menu with a bottle of vintage wine! My friend outraged call the girls with all the bad name he know in front of the whole restaurant …
She collapses, cries, apologizes to my friend, spreads herself on her shoulder, he consoles her, they kiss. And leave the table to go at the hotel… And I was left alone in front of my dish of pasta to pay the bill (do not look for a moral in this story there is none)
So, good hunting! Learn, be patient, courageous, enterprising and success and fun will be at the end of the road.
Unreasonably yours.
PJA
PS: I did my best to translate this book from my French edition but as my English is limited I am sure I made a lot of mistakes. If you have ideas, suggestions or even criticism (constructive) do not hesitate to let me a message in “leave a comment”. Thanks
