Chapter 28

Make love…

How to make love with a Woman?

I insist on the term “Make Love” with a capital ā€œLā€ and not like in the US “have sex”, which lacks romanticism to say the least!

It is not a question of “Fuck” and even less of “emptying your balls”, but of an act of love! It’s about having a rewarding experience for both of you that can lead to an ongoing relationship.

First of all, make her feel comfortable, take it easy to find out what she likes and dislikes. It ranges from total neurotics to sickly shyness.

She may only want to undress under the sheets, ask for dim light or no light at all! (be careful not to break anything when you get up)

I myself reminds that once in a bedroom hotel with two beds, the beautiful request that I get up and turn off the light… What I did, then on my way back in the dark and in my momentum I jump on the bed and… Fall between the two beds. Horrible! Fortunately for me to be ridiculous no longer kills! It made her laugh (not me).

Many women have complexes (even the most beautifull) and it is better to try not to upset them …

Start by caressing her (hair, shoulders, waist, back …)

If she doesn’t say anything, you can venture to more erogenous regions.

Kiss her, say nice little words to her (try in Italian or French, the adore it), then possibly some naughty words.

Be listening to her, study her reactions, go at your own pace…

See what she offers you, what she wants (consciously or unconsciously), listen more to her body language than what she say!

Remember: in sexuality, nothing is bad, nothing is disgusting, everything can be good!

Give her everything she’s secretly dreamed of: romance, wild sex, fantasies, etc.

It is also true that you do not go at the same speed, men want to be satisfied as quickly as possible, as for women, they need time.

As twe say, the men take the elevator to reach 7th heaven and the women take the stairs!

So take your time to satisfy her… Be imaginative, surprise her, make a difference with the other men she has known.

I forgot, if this is your home… Your bathroom.

She will not fail to get there…

It must be perfect!

If you have medication, hide it not need her to know you are sick even temporarily

Put away your toothbrush

Clean your hairbrush

Toilets must be C-L-E-A-N!

It must smell good (don’t abuse Air Week)

Put away condoms that she doesn’t think you are consuming heavily

(on this subject keep them anyway close, you never know)

Clean your shower or tub Who knows she might be using them?

If you have old boy habits try to hold back

No need to line your socks to the edge of the bed or go wash your hands three times in a row