Chapter 27

How to behave in the the bedroom?

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How to please a Woman in the Bedroom?

Either it’s the big passion, and you both jump on the bed, tearing your clothes, or more reasonably you take her in your arms and place her delicately on her bed, then little kisses more and more supported and you undress her slowly.

If she expresses the desire to go to the bathroom, it is because she wants to be reassured in front of the mirror, to put on a sexy nightgown for you, or to discreetly put on her diaphragm.

Also beware of pets… First of all, try to make friends with her dog or the cat! Often these animals have a prominent place in the life of their mistress and if they don’t like you, she may decide that you are not the one for her! But there is worse… The cat can decide to jump on the bed and come next to your face to watch you, or the dog to start howling at death at the fateful moment, which often has the effect of cut you off!

The night is yours …

Remember a woman’s body is like a beautiful musical instrument, and it is up to you to make it vibrate, so no wrong notes, feel free to ask her if she likes to be kissed in the hollow from the ear or… elsewhere, and in what way. When you get to know each other better, it will be important to let her know your preferences.

  1. Prioritize consent and communication: Consent is essential in any sexual encounter. Talk openly with your partner about boundaries, desires, and comfort levels. Respect her boundaries and actively seek her enthusiastic consent throughout the experience.
  2. Create a comfortable and safe environment: Make sure the bedroom environment is comfortable, clean, and free from distractions. Establishing a sense of safety and trust can help both partners relax and enjoy the experience.
  3. Focus on foreplay: Foreplay is important for building arousal and enhancing pleasure. Take your time with kissing, caressing, and exploring each other’s bodies. Pay attention to her responses and communicate to understand what feels good for her.
  4. Explore her erogenous zones: Every woman has different erogenous zones that can bring pleasure. Discover and explore her body, paying attention to areas such as the neck, breasts, inner thighs, and clitoral region. Ask for her guidance and feedback to learn what she enjoys.
  5. Oral sex: Many women enjoy oral sex as it can be highly pleasurable. Communicate and ask for guidance on her preferences, pace, and pressure. Remember that every woman is different, so be attentive to her reactions and adjust accordingly.
  6. Experiment with different positions and techniques: Explore different sexual positions and techniques to find what works best for both of you. Be open to trying new things and discuss any fantasies or desires you both may have.
  7. Focus on her pleasure: Shift the focus to her pleasure and satisfaction. Take your time to explore her desires, provide clitoral stimulation, and engage in activities that bring her pleasure. Remember, every woman is unique, so paying attention to her individual needs and desires is crucial.
  8. Communication during sex: Throughout the experience, maintain open communication. Ask for feedback, listen to her cues, and respond to her desires. Verbal and non-verbal communication can enhance the experience and ensure both partners are enjoying themselves.
  9. Aftercare: After sex, provide emotional support and intimacy. Cuddling, holding each other, and sharing affectionate moments can create a sense of connection and closeness.

Remember, these tips are general and may not apply to everyone. Each person’s preferences and desires vary, so active communication, respect, and a willingness to explore together are key to pleasing your partner in the bedroom.