Chapter 25

You are in the place…

Be confortable if a woman invite you!

Do not jump on her like misery on the poor world. Remember you are a Gentleman!

Have an interest to her house, her appartement, look at the paintings, diplomas, photographs, be interested without being intrusive! Compliment her without going as far as flattery.

She will offer you to have a drink or to eat directly.

Take a good look at the body language which is very important.

Did she sit next to you or a little further away?

Does she have her body and legs turned towards you?

Is she smiling and relaxed?

Does she don’t stop patting her fingers or shaking one leg nervously?

If she’s too nervous and tense, it’s up to you to ease the mood.

Go ahead with some humor and some fine jokes!

Does she run her hand through her hair, stroke her arms, legs or any other part of her body?

If so, it is a good sign: it means that she needs caresses or that she wants to be caressed (why not by you, smiles)

Things have to come naturally. A few light touches with your fingertips (take her hand)

Does she take it away or keep it?

Does it increase your pressure?

Is she stroking your hand?

Look her straight in the eye, smile, and then slowly approach. If she doesn’t respond, continue.

Use an excuse to whisper in her ear, then give her a little kiss on the neck or on the cheek.

If she blushes, breathes harder, that’s fine, fine! (lets go!)

When a woman is interested in you, she may display various signs that indicate her attraction. While every individual is different, here are some common signs that a woman may be interested in you:

  1. Body language: She may lean in closer when talking to you, make eye contact, and face you directly. Her body may be oriented towards you, indicating that she is engaged and interested in what you have to say.
  2. Active listening: She pays attention to what you’re saying and actively engages in the conversation. She asks questions, gives thoughtful responses, and shows genuine interest in getting to know you better.
  3. Flirting: She may playfully tease you, use light physical touch (such as touching your arm or shoulder), or engage in playful banter. Flirting is often a clear sign that she is interested in taking the interaction to a romantic level.
  4. Initiating contact: If she initiates contact, such as texting, calling, or reaching out on social media, it’s a positive sign that she wants to maintain communication and build a connection with you.
  5. Seeking your attention: She may try to get your attention by being near you, participating in activities you enjoy, or making an effort to spend time with you. She may also laugh at your jokes, even if they’re not particularly funny, as a way to show her interest.
  6. Remembering details: She pays attention to the details of your conversations and remembers things you’ve shared. If she brings up something you mentioned in a previous conversation, it’s a sign that she is actively listening and interested in what you have to say.
  7. Complimenting and teasing: She may give you genuine compliments, both about your physical appearance and your personality. She may also tease you in a lighthearted manner, showing that she feels comfortable around you and enjoys your company.
  8. Increased communication: If she responds to your messages promptly and consistently, initiates conversations, and shows enthusiasm in her communication with you, it’s a positive sign that she enjoys talking to you and wants to stay connected.

Remember, these signs are not definitive proof of her interest, and it’s important to consider the context and her individual personality. It’s always best to communicate openly and directly to clarify any uncertainties and ensure mutual understanding.