Guilt…
Are you itching for honesty? Do you feel guilty for having to lie, conceal or change the “truth”?
You want to be a little angel… Know that often they prefer the good little devils that have far more flavor and interest s in their eyes!
You probably think that in order to have a frank relationship you need to start off on the right foot and show yourself as you are with your weaknesses, your flaws and your physical and financial limitations.
It can work, but rarely. very rarely !
You have to know that the grass of the cemeteries is full of people who wanted to follow the rules of the game when the others did not!
For the most part, women do not hesitate to put all the assets into their games. To lie, to conceal, to hide, to provoke, to modify the facts, to seek, to investigate, to plot etc. etc.
Whether in love or in business, you have to know how to fight and cunning if you want to have what you want … It’s the law of the jungle!
Nobody is perfect You must do the necessary to be accepted, leaves confessions for later… if the relationship lasts!
If she loves you, she will easily forgive you for the efforts you have made to conquer her, especially since she certainly also has things to be forgiven!
Nothing is white or black everything is in shades of gray
it’s not necessary or recommended to share everything about yourself on a first date. The purpose of a first date is to get to know each other and establish a connection. It’s important to strike a balance between sharing information about yourself and allowing the conversation to flow naturally. Here are some guidelines:
- Be genuine and authentic: Share information about yourself that feels comfortable and relevant to the conversation. It’s okay to talk about your interests, hobbies, and experiences, but avoid overwhelming your date with excessive details or personal information.
- Listen actively: Show interest in your date by actively listening to what they have to say. Ask open-ended questions that encourage them to share about themselves. A good conversation is a two-way street, so make sure it’s not one-sided.
- Maintain a positive attitude: Keep the conversation light, positive, and enjoyable. Avoid delving into negative topics or sharing overly personal or sensitive information, especially early on in the dating process.
- Respect boundaries: Everyone has different comfort levels when it comes to sharing personal information. Respect your date’s boundaries and don’t pressure them to reveal more than they’re comfortable with. Likewise, be mindful of your own boundaries and only share what you feel comfortable disclosing.
- Allow for natural progression: Don’t feel the need to rush through your life story on the first date. Let the conversation unfold naturally and share information gradually over subsequent dates if the connection continues to develop.
Remember, building a connection is a gradual process, and it’s important to leave some room for curiosity and discovery. Focus on getting to know each other and enjoy the process of building a connection over time.