Choose your target…
Observe her carefully and discreetly!
Determine the habits, friends or girlfriends of those that interest you.
Imagine who they are, their lives, their education, their manners and… their tastes (very important).
Select the person who best aligns with your aspirations, avoiding thoughts like “she’s too good for me” or “with her, I would never get there.”
Is she a sportswoman (wearing jeans and a sweatshirt)?
Is she a ChiChi girl (carrying a Chanel bag and wearing glasses)?
Or is she a hippie (with disheveled hair and clothes of various colors)?
In short, determine her style.
If she frequently checks herself in the mirror every two minutes, it may indicate either a lack of self-assurance or a strong self-confidence that requires courage or acceptance.
Does she spend most of her time texting or answering her phone? You might be dealing with a “connected girl.”
Smartphones have become indispensable tools for many women. They manage their relationships and schedules, and platforms like Facebook, Twitter, and other social networks hold no secrets for them. They respond to emails and text messages even while sitting on café terraces, making these women virtually connected.
Let me share an anecdote: I once encountered a cellular phone enthusiast:
As we sat down at a table, her phone rings.
After a five-minute conversation, she hangs up, and just as I open my mouth to speak, the phone rings again.
Three times in a row, I try in vain to get a word in! In frustration, I get up, walk away, and call her on her cell phone.
Surprised and amused, she answers, and finally, I am able to have a conversation with her without being interrupted every two minutes. It takes resourcefulness…
Some individuals treat their smartphones as tools for their courtesan lifestyle. You can easily spot them strolling around with their Vuitton bags, Ray-Ban glasses, and their iPhones perpetually attached to their ears, hopping from one café terrace to another in search of a Sugar Daddy to help pay their rent!
One last precaution: If she predominantly focuses on women and neglects men, it’s best not to invest your time as she is likely a lesbian…
Conclusion
Remember that it’s important to approach relationships with open-mindedness, respect, and genuine curiosity about the other person. Stereotyping based on appearances or assumptions about someone’s preferences can be misleading and disrespectful. It’s crucial to get to know someone on a deeper level, appreciate their unique qualities, and foster open communication to truly understand their aspirations and interests.
Choosing a partner is a highly personal and subjective decision. It’s important to approach the process with thoughtfulness and consideration. Here are some factors to consider when choosing a woman:
- Shared Values and Goals: Look for a woman who shares your core values and has similar life goals. This can provide a strong foundation for a compatible and fulfilling relationship.
- Compatibility: Assess your compatibility in terms of interests, lifestyle, communication styles, and future plans. It’s important to have shared interests and be able to connect on a deeper level.
- Emotional Intelligence: Look for a woman who demonstrates emotional intelligence, the ability to understand and manage emotions. Emotional intelligence can contribute to healthy communication, empathy, and a strong emotional connection.
- Mutual Respect: Seek a woman who treats others with respect and expects the same in return. Mutual respect is crucial for a healthy and harmonious relationship.
- Supportive and Caring: Consider how supportive and caring a woman is towards you and others. Look for someone who shows genuine care, empathy, and is willing to be there for you in both good and challenging times.
- Communication Skills: Effective communication is vital in any relationship. Look for a woman who can express herself clearly, actively listens to you, and is open to resolving conflicts through respectful and constructive communication.
- Trustworthiness and Loyalty: Trust is the foundation of any strong relationship. Seek a woman who is trustworthy, reliable, and loyal. Trustworthiness builds a sense of security and strengthens the bond between partners.
- Personal Growth and Independence: It’s important to choose a woman who values personal growth and independence. A healthy relationship allows space for individuality and supports each other’s personal development.
Remember that nobody is perfect, and it’s essential to have realistic expectations. Take the time to get to know someone, observe their actions and behavior, and trust your instincts. Ultimately, the right woman for you is someone with whom you share a deep connection, mutual understanding, and a strong sense of compatibility.