Secrets to attraction
My little secrets…
This have to stay between us!
1st Associate yourself with positive things, let me explain …
If there are negative elements every time she meets you (it’s raining, a flat tire, has a cold) she will automatically think that you are bad luck to her, I know it’s not fair but it’s like that!
So you have to counterbalance or simply provoke positive elements in your favor …
Ex: “Thanks to you I won the lottery and I propose to spend this money with you tonight. Thank you for bringing me luck” Even if it is not true she will appreciate!
Ex: “I feel better since I saw you, fitter, younger, thank you for your good positives waves”
Ex: “I feel much happier since I met you You are my fairy benefactor”
Ex: “Thanks to you, I regained my self-confidence. I feel decided, combative, confident again in the future, Thank you!”
Ex: “This morning I was thinking of you and it gave me the courage to sign an important contract, to ask for a raise, to find other work of your choice. All this, thanks to you!”
She must feel how important she is to you and your life To be used in moderation anyway, if you go too fast …
Ex: Give her a little present and look her in the eyes and touch her. She will associate your presence and your touch with the pleasure of the gift! Multiply the occasions (the gifts), restaurants, shows, all these little pleasures that are because of you and give make her happier and loved
Tell her that she is beautiful, that you like her very much, that you appreciate her, her charm, her humor, her smile, her clothes etc etc (Do not forget to touch it, it is an anchor in psychology language! )
Do not be afraid to use and use again and again this tricks… And if it come from the heart it will be even more valuable!
They constantly need assurances and reassurances, women are insecure!
2 em The ambiance…
A small glass of wine (or a bottle) will make it easier Alcohol is well known to lower inhibitions
On this subject in the United States people are so stuck in their cultures that the first thing they do when they are on vacation or at a party is to get drunk as quickly as possible in order to have the possibility of having fun. and communicate with others!!!
Nice soft music (nothing thunderous) can do it very well. You can talk to each other without having to shout.
Lighting: A soft light will bring a comfortable and reassuring atmosphere!
3 em Make her laugh!
In France we say that making a woman laugh is already half conquering her?
Use humor
Tell funny stories (not just for yourself) and not crude jokes, don’t make her uncomfortable
Remember: “Laugh at others is to have humor, to laugh at yourself is to have spirit!”.
4 em Text her
Text her 10 times a day or more Remind her that you exist That you think of her!
5 em Call her
Find any pretext to call her she must know that she is the center of your universe!
6m Send her hot emails
Women love when you write to them Tell her about your day Send a virtual bouquet of flowers (e-card).
7 em Write her a poem That, even if it is not very good they are very sensitive to it.
8 em Compose a song that you will accompany with your guitar if unlike me you don’t sing too badly
If you have good friends, give her a little serenade under her balcony effect guaranteed!
9 em Keep a journal
Keep a journal of your successes and failures
Analyze your failures without complacency by trying to find and correct your mistakes for the next time.
Same for your success try to understand why and try to so the same the next time!
Look at you in the mirror
Take a picture or film of yourself with your phone
Try to see yourself through other people’s eyes
Try it out Ex: shave your mustache ( +- more success?)
Change your hairstyle ( +- more success?)
Change your dress style ( +- more success?)
Eventually a colleague, a sister or a friend can help you
Personally, I adopted the empirical method which consists in learning from my successes and my mistake…