Chapter 14

Take a conquest attitude!

What women want?

If you go boarding with your head down and your tail down (sorry) you have lost; women do not like the weaks…

You need to be strong: shoulders and torso forward, an engaging smile and be a conqueror …

It’s all about the posture, relaxed and confident!

You have to take the initiative, don’t wait for her Most women prefer to be guided and know very well how to say “NO” when they don’t agree!

It is you who choose the place and the time of the meeting do not say “Would you be available Tuesday evening 8 am at the central café” say instead “Tuesday evening 8 am café central Ok?”

Or even better “I’m preparing a great evening for us I’ll pick you up at 8am Tuesday?”

Even better: Hold out your card behind which you have write the place and time of the meeting! And… eclipse yourself

They love the mysteryand adventure…

You order at the restaurants say “Order a boeuf bourguignon for two It’s excellent ! “(It mean that you are an accustomed . Order the wine” A bottle of Cabernet d’Anjou “A blink of an eye to the beautiful (you’re a wine connoisseur)

You are the one leading the conversation. Don’t wait for her to open fire !!!

But tell me what do you do for a living?” and to compliment her “Nurse? Well done, but this requires a lot of courage ”

“ Do you have a hobby?” What do you like to read The movies you like etc.

Don’t be too inquisitive ex: How much do you earn per month?

If she’s the one asking this kind of question, beware she’s interested …

ABSOLUTELY AVOID talking about politics or religion it’s too dangerous!

If she also tells you, as has happened to me several times, that she sees God every morning in her kitchen, don’t insist …

After the restaurant “What if we were going to have a drink in a quieter place? I know a nice little cafe with Jazz… ”

Plan everything in advance. Look on the internet, magazines, events ( look at the prices) no nasty surprises keep control is essential: Julius Caesar said “To govern is to foresee”

Besides on this subject it is fashionable to use this kind of saying from time to time (show that you have culture) and remember culture is like jam, the less we have, the more we have to split it (French quote). Be careful though that she is not an intellectual and she know the subject better than you…

Eg:

Hope is going out in a beautiful sun and coming home in the rain. (Jules Renard)

Nothing could be simpler and more beautiful than these two verbs put together: to go out and meet! (Roland Poupon)

On a given horse one does not look at the teeth. (old French proverb)

Etc …

You can find on the net collections of quotes and proverbs that will help you…