Be a Gentleman…
The secrets of attraction
Take her chair and help her out of the table
Help her put on her coat
Stand aside to let her pass.
They are sensitive to all these little attentions!
Avoid smoking, chew gum, maybe she doesn’t like it!
It’s class to opens the door of the car for her, same thing at the the restaurant, wait for her to sit to sit in yourself, even if it seems old fashion. I assure you that it works …
Offer to walk her back to her car (they are not always reassured in the evening).
You can possibly escort her home: she will be grateful, unless she does not want you to know where she lives.
Don’t insist on kissing, just small, discreet touches at first to build up desire.
If she wants to get closer or kiss you, don’t worry, she’ll let you know!
It is rare for a woman to invite you to her house the first time: they do not want to appear as a slut, or be harassed by men they do not want to see again.
There are unwritten rules. For example, in California, ladies don’t want to share their bed before the fourth date. Why ? Maybe not to seem too easy going…
In fact, as in everything, you have to practice, practice, practice, and you will see that reflexes will come to you automatically, and that the shyness, if you have any, will fly away like the hesitations.
You will gain self-confidence and women will feel it (they have antennas for that!).
There are also a lot of parameters to take into account, which you can’t do much about!
For example, a woman who will soon have her period is more sensitive and aroused by masculine scents.
She may come out of a bad relationship, and that makes her suspicious, even aggressive, towards men!
You can be morally or physically like someone who disappointed her? (conversely, this can also work in your favor)
She could had a bad day (she received her taxes, her boss was mad at her, etc. etc.) there too, the reverse can be true.
Perhaps you absolutely do not enter into its selection criteria! (too big, too small, too much this, not enough that, not rich enough, etc. etc.)
She has just gone to see her spychic…
I have to tell you a horrible thing that I did one day ( And don’t tell anyone!) I was going to have dinner with a beautiful woman whom I really cared about and she call me to say: “I’m sorry Pat but I just saw my psychic this afternoon and she told me that our relationship was doomed; so I don’t want to continue … ”
“ I am really sorry but I understand” I replied, and insidiously I asked for the fortune teller’s name!
The same evening I telephoned to the sphychic “Do you see you coming 200 euro bills on the horizon.”
The next day the clairvoyant calls the beautiful “I’m sorry Madam, but I made a mistake in the calculation of the stars! On the contrary, this relationship is extremely, I say extremely positive! ”
A few moments later, the lady called me back to tell me that our connection was blessed by the gods and the stars and that it was coming back to me ”Oufffff!
Machiavelli, me? No ! Simply determined …
In short, there can be lots of things that you totally miss!
Another time, in a Parisian Cafe I saw a beautifull lady at the terrasse, with a smile I introduce myself, the lady begins whispering me to the ear a broadside of insults as well as unflattering appreciations on my face and my physique??? Not being myself on one of my best days, I cried aloud “What!” 2000 Euros for a blow job? ” The beautiful Madam, blushed like a tomato, stand up and fled under the laughter of all the people!
You must (theoretically) not to lose your temper, then I was lucky that no one of these guys with big arms and friend of her was not sitting nearby!
The best way is to try multiple times…
A good attitude would be to say to yourself “I can’t please everyone and I can’t always arrive at the right time at the right place”.
First I’m going to surprise you, but the more beautiful a woman, the easier she is to approach, why?
A less pretty girl is not used to be approached… “What does this guy want?” “But I did not ask him anything”. In short, not easy!
On the other hand, a beauty is used to receive male attention and will not be offended by your approach.
At the other end of the scale, there are the super beauties who complain of never being approached! Eh yes. As they seem not affordable to ordinary people, men are content to admire them as an inaccessible masterpiece…
Try you will see!