Impress her…
How to Impress a Woman?
Do not hesitate to impress her, remember that it is often in the first minutes of the date that women form their opinions.
Example:
I remember that I had noticed that the lights of the cathedral of my town turned on every days at the same time, almost to the nearest second, no doubt thanks to an automatic system.
As there is a coffee shop in front of the cathedral, I invited my new date at this restaurant at the first floor right with a wonderful view of the monument.
While discreetly checking my watch, I chatted casually with her and when there were only a few seconds left before the moment the light turn on. I tell her, “You see it’s a sign that we are here together tonight, and I’m sure that there is going to be something that will confirm it to us, I can feel it ”.
And bing! At this very moment The cathedral lights up to the amazement of my companion, who exclaims:
“ This is the sign, this is the sign!” The rest was, as you can imagine, easy to manage!
Take it slow though, don’t scare her, go at her own pace, pretend you’re in the habit of going out regularly with beautiful girls: women like men who are confident.
Above all, be a gentleman, discreetly pay the bill otherwise she will think you are a cheap guy.
Do not spend ten minutes redoing all the calculations for the bill: you will sound like crazy.
Not either “ah, it cost me 200 bucks” or “Goooood, it was not too expensive” Discreet! Discreet ! Discreet !
Also, don’t forget to leave a comfortable tip, which will win you the sympathy and complicity of the waiters the next time you will come to this place and … she will notice it!
And above all it will prevent you (it has happened to me before) to have a boy running after you shouting “Monsieur forgot to leave a tip!”. And even once “it’s not enough!” It goes badly …
If you are using your credit card, make sure you have enough money in your account.
Once, a waiter, jealous of the beauty of the person who was accompanying me, came back saying aloud so that the whole restaurant could hear “your card has been declined, sir, there is no money on it, you are broke!” The bastard. The lady slipped away and they lost a client. When in doubt, take cash.
If you speak foreign languages do not hesitate to invite her to a restaurant where you can converse with the waiter or the boss in the language or languages you know. You can also take out your phone and start a conversation in a another language even if there is no one at the other end 😉
Women are also very sensitive to famous brands If you wear a costume, a shirt and a watch with a well known brand, they will notice it. Without emptying your bank account you can take advantage of sales or thrift stores to suit yourself. For watches you can buy online “replicas” at low prices (copies of well-known watches, very reasonable to buy). Don’t overdo it anyway …
While it’s important to make a good impression, it’s essential to be genuine and not overly contrived. Here are some guidelines to consider:
- Find unique and memorable experiences: Look for venues or activities that provide a special touch or a unique atmosphere. It could be a restaurant with a beautiful view, a live music performance, or an art exhibition. The goal is to create a memorable experience that sets the date apart.
- Show confidence and be yourself: Confidence is attractive, but it’s important to strike a balance and not come across as arrogant. Be genuine, be yourself, and let your natural charm shine through. Authenticity is key to building a genuine connection.
- Be discreet with the bill: Handle the bill with discretion. Offer to pay without drawing attention to it. If she insists on splitting the bill or contributing, graciously accept her offer. Avoid discussing the cost extensively or making a show of your financial situation.
- Leave a generous tip: Leaving a generous tip shows appreciation for the service and can leave a positive impression. It’s a thoughtful gesture that can create goodwill and may be noticed by your date.
- Avoid excessive brand flaunting: While wearing well-known brands can be appealing to some, it’s important not to overdo it or make it the focus of the conversation. Instead, focus on genuine connections and shared interests rather than material possessions.
Remember, the most important aspect is to be yourself, be respectful, and create an enjoyable experience for your date. Focus on building a connection based on genuine conversation and shared interests, rather than relying solely on external factors.
