Female attractions
What drives the world?
What sets the globe in motion?
What ignites your passion?
The answer is simple: love, sex, and the innate desire for procreation that nature has bestowed upon us, ensuring the survival of our species!
It’s the grand game of our existence—it’s the ONLY game: the game of seduction!
It is what compels women to apply makeup and spend hours choosing a dress, and men to buy sports cars only to inch along in traffic…
It’s what makes us feel alive, gives us a sense of purpose, and if we’re fortunate enough to encounter someone who captivates us, it fills us with excitement and euphoria!
However, the challenge lies in how and where to find someone who will accept us as we are, and who will accompany us for an evening or a lifetime.
I consider myself fortunate to have been born ugly, not a monster, but rather an unattractiveness guy, that renders me invisible to most women and fails to pique their interest.
I swiftly realized that there was no point in lamenting this fact; instead, I had to discover the elements that would allow me to meet and charm these ladies.
In short… if I didn’t make an effort to approach them, they would never come to me!
I decided to adopt an almost scientific approach, based on observing this unique species: the female sex!
To accomplish this, I found an ideal observatory: a small café-restaurant frequented by people of all ages near my residence. I nestled myself in a corner like a spider in its web and waited…
(I encourage you, as an exercise, to try the same approach—it’s genuinely enlightening and representative of our society. Master the art of blending in. Be a chameleon and merge with the environment!)
After a few days, I was able to identify and differentiate several categories:
- The elderly woman, sitting alone, meticulously stirring her tea. She has ample time, visits daily, and expects nothing and no one.
- The elderly man with his dog, arriving for his coffee after a walk with his faithful companion.
- The solitary gentleman who discreetly scans the area, yearning to approach women but lacking the courage… (perhaps a future reader!)
- The young woman glancing at her watch every two minutes, awaiting her late boyfriend, who will undoubtedly frustrate her.
And so on, and so forth.
By observing a woman’s attire, makeup, gait, speech, and behavior, we can deduce a significant portion of her personality…
The field of investigation is boundless, and you can hone your senses and powers of deduction to unimaginable levels.
A café represents a microcosm of human society—you can find a myriad of personalities there if you open your eyes.
First and foremost, you must learn to observe, say nothing, do nothing for several days or weeks, and become acquainted with your surroundings (whether it’s a café, a terrace, a club, a bookstore… the more public and frequented the place, the better!).
In short, become part of the scenery. Women need reassurance, and feeling like you are part of their environment provides them with that reassurance. You are no longer a stranger poised to pounce upon them.
Conclusion:
Attracting women is a complex and multifaceted topic, as every individual is unique and has different preferences. However, here are some general tips that can help you in attracting women:
- Confidence: Confidence is attractive to both men and women. Work on building your self-confidence by recognizing your strengths, setting goals, and engaging in activities that make you feel good about yourself.
- Personal Hygiene and Appearance: Take care of your personal hygiene, dress well, and groom yourself. Pay attention to your physical appearance, as it can make a positive impression.
- Good Communication Skills: Develop good communication skills, including active listening and engaging in meaningful conversations. Show genuine interest in the person you’re talking to and be a good listener.
- Sense of Humor: Having a good sense of humor and the ability to make others laugh can be highly attractive. Use humor appropriately and in a way that suits your personality.
- Respect and Kindness: Treat women with respect, kindness, and empathy. Show appreciation for their opinions, feelings, and boundaries. Avoid being disrespectful, dismissive, or overly pushy.
- Shared Interests: Engage in activities and hobbies that you enjoy and are passionate about. This can provide opportunities to meet like-minded women who share your interests.
- Social Skills and Confidence: Develop your social skills by engaging in social activities, meeting new people, and expanding your social circle. Practice being confident and comfortable in social settings.
- Be Yourself: Authenticity is important. Be true to yourself and let your genuine personality shine through. Trying to be someone you’re not is unlikely to lead to a fulfilling connection.
Remember, attraction is subjective, and what works for one person may not work for another. It’s important to be patient, respectful, and open to getting to know someone on a deeper level. Building a genuine connection based on mutual understanding and compatibility is key.